Saturday, September 10, 2022

Setting the Stage & Building Connections: The Importance of a 'Meet the School Counselor' Lesson


Today, I want to chat with you about an essential part of our job: introducing ourselves to students each year. It's like setting the stage for a fantastic school year! Having a  "Meet the School Counselor" lesson is crucial for building connections and establishing a positive relationship with our students. Even if your students have known you for all of their elementary years, it’s important to remind them each year how you can support them!

First things first, why do we need to conduct a meet the counselor lesson? Well, it's all about building trust and rapport with our students. By introducing ourselves early on, we create a welcoming and approachable atmosphere. When students feel comfortable around us, they're more likely to seek our support when they need it. Plus, by clarifying our role as school counselors, we help students understand how we can assist them in their academic, social, emotional, and career development.


So, what should be included in this lesson? Let's break it down:

Personal Connection: Start by sharing a bit about yourself. Let students know who you are, how long you've been a school counselor, your interests, and maybe even a fun fact or two. This personal touch helps students see you as a relatable and trustworthy person.

Explaining Our Role: It's vital to clearly articulate what we do as school counselors. Talk about how we support students' academic success and well-being. Share examples of how we help with schoolwork, friendships, family issues, and urgent situations. Students need to understand that we're here to support them through any challenges they may face.

Location and Accessibility: Make sure students know where to find you when they need help. Explain the process of self-referral, teacher referrals, parent referrals, and follow-up appointments. This empowers students to seek assistance whenever they need it.

Confidentiality and Trust: Discuss the importance of confidentiality in our counseling relationship. Let students know that their conversations with us are private, unless their safety or the safety of others is at risk. By emphasizing confidentiality, we build trust and ensure students feel comfortable sharing their concerns with us.

Engaging Activities: Incorporate fun and interactive activities to help students share information about themselves and foster a sense of connection and community within the classroom. By designing activities that encourage active participation and self-expression, you can create an inclusive and engaging environment. 


Lights, Camera, Action!

I love having a theme for each of my lessons. One of my favorite introduction lessons is called Setting the Stage. It is Hollywood themed and I explain that we school counselors are like the "Best Supporting Actors" in the school. I tell them how we're there to support their learning and help them tackle any issues that may come their way, so they can focus on being awesome students!

To make a point about self-worth, I bring out a $20 bill. We talk about how valuable money is and then I crumple it up, throw it on the ground, stomp on it, and yell insults at it. You should see my students’ faces! But when I ask if anyone still wants that crumpled bill, they all raise their hands. That's when I explain that just like the $20 bill, our value as individuals remains the same no matter what challenges we face. It’s always a powerful moment!

After discussing all the important info about my role as the school counselor, to make things even more exciting, we play a game called "Surprising Facts of the Stars." Each student writes down something about themselves that others might not know. It could be anything from a surprising fact to an interesting job, unusual favorite food, or a special interest. Then, I collect the cards and read them out loud for the class to guess who it is. It’s a blast and we all learn some fascinating things about each other!

To wrap it all up, students participate in a "Mad-Lib Movie" activity which creates hilarious stories! Some students like to keep their stories, while others contribute their sheets to make a book or display.

Overall, it’s important to get to know each other at the beginning of the year, understand my role as a counselor, and build a sense of trust and community in the classroom. Having an engaging Meet the Counselor lesson provides numerous benefits to our students. They become more aware of the support available to them, feel empowered to seek guidance, and develop a sense of belonging within the school community. Ultimately, this sets the stage for building a bond of support throughout the school year.

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